The Escort and Client

Let's start with a safe word, make sure before hand your partner knows what it is.  Now is the time to be confident and do what you do best, not experiment with new things.  Lay out the boundaries and discuss exactly what you both want out of this; there's nothing worse than ending up with a face full of jizz when you just wanted to be called a slut a few times. Remember, no laughing! Even if your partner says something seriously dicky, don't go killing the moment. You can go with as little or as much detail as you want but from experience, the more detail the easier it is to 'become' your character.

Although men seem to be the ones to request role playing in the bedroom, they are usually the most awkward during the night.  Playing the client is an easy role to do, a nice shirt and tie = businessman, bonus points if you bring a briefcase with your favorite toys. Alternatively you can just use your comfortable at home clothes or birthday suit for a house call or neat attire if you plan on meeting at a pub/ club.

Now for my favorite part, the escort costume! Get the trashiest panties you can find, I scored a flimsy little tie up pair for only $7.50 along with some fishnet stockings and these great heels from Fantasy Footwear.  A quick search on ebay for 'club wear' found me the perfect tight red mini dress that zips open from the front and a great tacky blonde wig for $60.  There are cheaper wigs out there but you do get what you pay for, I wasn't willing to pay much more than that but there are some fantastic more expensive ones out there. Get out your red lipstick, your shiniest lip gloss, pile on the mascara and put on your big hoop earrings.  Take your time getting ready, this is all a part of the foreplay, you need to feel sexy to act sexy.

Location, location, location! Are you going to get ready at home and suprise him for a house call? How about booking a cheap motel for the night to set the scene or if you're really game, take your tarted up self down to a pub or club (make sure it's not in your town or you don't care about being recognized!) Planning is everything, it's the build up of organising your naughty night that helps build the lust so don't go planning everything yourself and giving your partner their 'orders'.  Sit up in bed talking about how you would like it to pan out and browse the net together looking at costumes.  Use this as an opportunity to get to know your partner a bit better, I found out my husband has a bit of a fantasy about me in a tiny mini dress that he can catch a peek of my panties as I walk.

Try to be confident, your partner loves you and accepts you for who you are.  Take a big breath and step into the shoes of your new character, there is nothing sexier than confidence. Use your best dirty talk, take your time and make sure that every item of clothing you remove is done slowly and sensually.  Try and refrain from letting yourself cum (unless that's what your client wants) you are here to tend to their needs.  Blowjobs and handjobs aren't just for teenagers, use this time to bring out the deviant in you and do something that you haven't done in a while, that means no missionary! Missionary is banned from this roleplay! Stay in character till you fall asleep, don't go being buzzkillington asking how great your acting is wwhen he hasn't even had time to recover and you never know, there might be plans for more!